this morning i was very ambitious. i got up at the first alarm (instead of snoozing 5 times like my hubby likes to do!), i brought the LO to daycare (on time since i didn’t snooze for an hour!), and then i got home and decided to go for a run around the local park! i haven’t gone for a run (read as “slightly-faster-than-walking-speed-jog”) in what seems like forever. i think i went out for one sometime last fall when i was still nursing (not so fun with over-sized boobies) but then my most recent job started up and i’ve been beyond busy since then… until now! well, not that i’m not busy. there’s a TON of cleaning to do before our LO’s first birthday party. (that’s right! i’m a little freaked out by that too!! AAHHH!!!!) and i’ve got a lot of catching up to do on sewing projects and job searching on top of that… but anyways, i digress.
i got my running gear on, including my headphones and shoes, and made my way out to the park. while there, i ran into a gal i used to work with. she recognized me almost immediately, and once i paid attention (instead of zoning out like one does during a run) i recognized her too. i stopped my run, turned her direction and walked along with her for the remainder of my outing.
though i hadn’t seen her in more than a year, and although the age difference between us is enough that she could almost be my grandmother, we had a great time catching up with one another. we talked about camping and traveling, exercising, life and family, parenting, and other members of the ‘family’ we had when we worked together. we both agreed that the people you work with can make your job a pain or a great way to spend your days.
many of my previous jobs have had similar ‘work families’, people i’d look forward to seeing each shift, people i wouldn’t mind sharing with, people i wouldn’t mind listening to, and most importantly: people i could count on for support, understanding, and encouragement.
it’s a bit amazing to me that so many strangers can come together and create such a marvelous web of mutual caring strong enough to catch a member when they falter or boost one another when the skies turn grey. it’s so encouraging, to me, to know that there are people in this world capable of that kind of caring for others who don’t share any part of their genetic code. i only hope that those people again become the norm, rather than those whose negative acts rule the newscasts these days.
and i hope that i can again find a place where my ‘work family’ is waiting with open arms.
do you have a ‘work family’? or a church group ‘family’? who do you turn to when blood-relatives are far away and the skies turn a nasty shade of grey?





